Aghhh this sweet child of mine. π
We learned we were expecting him just about 5 1/2 years ago. We weren't ready, and I cried. A lot.
Well you know how they say that thereβs a positive intention in everything?
He's taught me that my body is powerful, resilient and strong. He's retaught me that the simple things are the most special; the sunshine, new experiences, and that laughter is the best medicine. π
He reminds me to be fearless, the true meaning of patience, and the power of a good nights sleep. π
And, a consistent reminder that itβs reallyyyyyy easy to put yourself on the back-burner when you are focusing on the people that you love. π¨βπ©βπ§
We want to bring our A game -- to be alive and engaged, which means it's easy to put yourself last. π€¦π»ββοΈ
But Iβve learned something really important...
I can't bring my A game when Iβm depleted, exhausted, overworked, over committed, and consistently putting my needs last. π«
When I do, he ends up cheated. He doesnβt get the best version of me, he gets a worn down, depleted, cranky, walking dead version of me. π
And if Ziggy gets that, we all know what Chris gets π³π
When Iβm trying to be everything to everybody, do all the things, wear all the hats, be everywhere all the time... all while thinking Iβm bringing my A game, but instead am bringing my B, or C or D game.
Heβs taught me to be honest about what I want, what I need, what deserve, and how to re-prioritize and HONOR what is most important.
Who knew someone under 4 feet tall could teach someone this much!?
Itβs pretty wild. If I knew what a positive impact this little person was going to have on my life, I wouldn't have cried so much. β€οΈ
What have your children taught you?